How We Help

I’ll be blunt. I’m not going to waste your time hiding behind trite Christian cliches and the same old parenting strategies–because you have already tried those. And if it were that easy, you wouldn’t be here. You don’t need to be judged. You need practical, concrete strategies to accomplish two critical goals:

Be More Like Christ

Do you feel compelled to make sure everyone else is happy and everything is perfect, but neglect your own needs and feel resentful? Do you find yourself controlling your kids and people around you…because you can’t control yourself? Do you feel guilty for constantly yelling and threatening…when it’s really about your own anxiety? Tired of letting kids and circumstances push your buttons? Do you run from conflict?

Our relationship with Christ is supposed to transform us, to be more like Him. But anxiety, guilt, resentment and lack of self-respect sabotage our transformation. This has NOTHING to do with your kids and everything to do with you. Before you can parent like God, you must become more like God: a calm, patient, immovable rock who—instead of needing others to act a certain way—spreads calm wherever you go. This is about and for YOU. Ready to learn how to stand up for yourself, show self-respect and get back control of your life?

Romans 8:29 
For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son…

Parent Like God Parents Us–With Lots of Grace

Do you want kids who are responsible for their homework, bedrooms, choices, attitudes and moods? Solve their own sibling issues? Turn their video games/screens off without even asking? Do you want practical strategies to: eliminate power struggles, defiance and disrespect? Enjoy mornings, dinner, homework and bedtime without stress, rushing and yelling? Deal with anxiety, sensory issues and special needs? Stop toddlers from whining and complaining with one word? Have motivated teenagers? Get on the same page with your spouse, set proper expectations and discipline the way God disciplines us?

God chose to identify Himself as a Father. What can we learn about parenting from the way that our Father treats us? We’ll challenge misconceptions about Biblical parenting that destroy relationships, create unrealistic expectations and cause people to judge you. We will show you step-by-step the exact words, tone and actions to take…to raise responsible, respectful children…that you genuinely enjoy. No matter how challenging or intense they are.

If you are ready to change your family life, then take bold action today. Kirk can mentor you through our powerful our CDs & DVDs. Click here to learn how you can break generational patterns and change your family tree forever–it’s a gift for you and your children.

2 Corinthians 3:18
We…are being transformed into his image with ever-increasing glory…

If you have questions, call Brett at 888-506-1871. Brett@CalmCPU.com. He will be thrilled to listen to you, assess your specific needs and guide you to the right solutions for your family. We work with everyone’s budget so be bold and call.